Out of 100%,more than 90% assume this as a negative word as if it is a taboo for a human to be confused.
To be a bit detailed,If someone is in confused state of mind and somehow it comes to the knowledge of people,the very first common reaction shown by people is as same as the reaction a vegetarian gives to non-veg dish on his plate!!
Most don't try to understand that if someone is confused and facing problem in taking decision and came for help from them then they shouldn't show their prototype negative reflection rather they should feel good that the confused person considers them as superior, wise and want their consultancy!!
The very question should be focused on is-"WHY one is confused?", if we assume it in a negative way then we are showing that we don't have the skill to solve things or give someone solution..
Now if we assume it in a positive way , then we will get to know that:-
-one gets confused when he have many ideas and have to choose one among all.
-one gets confused when he don't want to regret for his decision.
-one gets confused when he have many options and want to choose the best.
-one gets confused if only he have the caliber to think about things from different dimensions.
We should know that one who gets confused don't take "decision making" for granted.Even Sometimes we get to learn from a confused person a lot of things which we have never came across!!
Recently with some practical experiments had funny experience (you can try it too)- The one to whom you go for in seek of suggestion when you are confused,instead of giving you a trenchant suggestion or conclusion if he starts to talk nonsense like 'why you so confused!! or why cant you take decision!!', simply give him 3 options and ask him to choose one for you, if he choose one among the three ..then the game begins :), ask 3 simple questions to him -1.why you chose this option? 2.why not the other two option? 3.If the other two option will be more fruitful,should I regret?.... then watch his confused face and enjoy ;) (in most of the cases you can have fun,try it but prepare well )
All I realised that its natural to be confused as taking decision is not an easy task and if someone is not confused at times then he/she is not looking at a particular thing from different dimensions or don't have much options or don't give a deep thought to things.
Getting confused and taking time to finalize things is better than regretting.
